Butterflies have long been a sign in many cultures. Starting as caterpillars then emerging from cocoons, it makes sense that butterflies would be a sign of rebirth. My first butterfly experience happened on the phone with my friend’s teenage daughter the day he passed away. While talking, I was surprised to see a blue butterfly outside, which I never see where I live. Since it was odd, I mentioned it to her. She said that she was looking at blue butterflies outside her window too. Across the country, we were both seeing blue butterflies while talking about her dad. That was a powerful sign. As sad as I felt, it was comforting too. Like he was free and beautiful after being released from the ravages of cancer. And, it was a sign that he’ll always be around looking after his daughter. Last time I saw her, she couldn’t remember the call, but her mom sure did. Blue butterflies continue to be a sign of him that we share. We reminisce about that call and those blue butterflies and whenever I see a blue butterfly I say, “Hi Jeff” and text his wife.