Have you ever had a dream about a loved one who died that was so vivid it felt like a visit? According to psychic John Edward, those visitation dreams are ways loved ones bring us messages from beyond. About a year after my brother died, I dreamed I walked into a Tiki Bar, bellied up to the bar and seated to my left, wearing a teal Hawaiian shirt, was my brother. We were elated to see each other, and the bartender placed a chilled glass mug with a perfect, frosty, golden pour in front of me. My brother and I were both in our early twenties and proceeded to party hearty. Worldly issues that weighed down our relationship no longer existed. The tribulations of life didn’t matter. The reality that he had died, never seeped in during the dream. We had a blast and all these years later, I clearly recall the brown grass above our heads, the tiki carved wooden stools, pounding down beers, his teal shirt and laughing. It was a fun, freeing and forgiving visit. I woke up laughing. John Edward called one of his books One Last Time because he said that people should be given “one last time to talk to the people in their lives” who have died. That tiki bar dream was a gift and felt like my one last time with my brother.